8dp3dt = CD1
I knew it. I dreamt about it all night. I'm bleeding.
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I knew it. I dreamt about it all night. I'm bleeding.
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Damn! I am so sorry, Thalia. I wish this weren't happening. It seemed like the cycle went so well. May I ask, is it just spotting? Because if it is a small amount, then you could still be pregnant and should test. But, I know that the odds are against that option. I am sad for you. This is so unfair. I'm thinking of you.
Posted by: wessel | Tuesday, 15 November 2005 at 08:00
No, it's full on flow.
Posted by: thalia | Tuesday, 15 November 2005 at 08:11
Oh no, Thalia. Oh no. I'm so dreadfully, dreadfully sorry. Crying over here.
WHY?????
A big, sad hug. And many affectionate thoughts.
Posted by: Kath | Tuesday, 15 November 2005 at 08:20
I'm so sorry Thalia.
I'll echo Kath's big,sad hug.
Posted by: Bonnie | Tuesday, 15 November 2005 at 10:23
Oh, Thalia. No. I just can't believe it. Especially after what you wrote yesterday. Barren Mare's cycle ended the same way and it was just devastating. I just don't even have the words.
Posted by: Lindy | Tuesday, 15 November 2005 at 11:53
I'm dreadfully sorry Thalia. Whenever this happens for someone I feel the same anger, resentment and general hatred for the ways of the world as I do for my own negative tests and period flow. Saying it's unfair doesn't capture the half of it.
Thinking of you.
Posted by: MsPrufrock | Tuesday, 15 November 2005 at 12:02
Oh, Thalia. I wish I knew what to say. I'm just so sad, thinking of what you're going through right now. I'm so sorry.
Posted by: pixi | Tuesday, 15 November 2005 at 12:23
Oh no, Thalia. I am so sorry. I'm thinking of you at this difficult time.
Posted by: chee chee | Tuesday, 15 November 2005 at 12:42
Oh sweetie I'm sorry. I'm so angry and upset for you. Why is this so f*cking hard?!?!
We're here for you girl.
Posted by: fisher queen | Tuesday, 15 November 2005 at 12:57
Thalia, I am so sorry to read your news. I know how crushing this is and I am sharing your sadness.
Posted by: Mary Scarlet | Tuesday, 15 November 2005 at 13:02
Oh, no. I couldn't get your blog to load last night for some reason and was hoping to check back in here and see good news.
I'm very sorry Thalia. Big hugs.
Posted by: Lisa P. | Tuesday, 15 November 2005 at 13:07
Oh no. Did you call you doctor? Any chance at all that this is just heavy spotting? I'm so, so, so sorry. I'm thinking and praying for you right now, and sending a million hugs your way.
Posted by: Shish | Tuesday, 15 November 2005 at 13:11
Oh, Thalia. I hate this--I hate that you have to go through this, I am just so sorry and sad. I wish there was something useful I could say or do.
I am, and will be, thinking of you.
Posted by: Alexa | Tuesday, 15 November 2005 at 13:13
I'm so sorry, Thalia.
Posted by: Suz | Tuesday, 15 November 2005 at 13:19
I'm so sorry, Thalia.
Posted by: Suz | Tuesday, 15 November 2005 at 13:20
I'm so sorry Thalia. It's not fair.
Posted by: Jenn | Tuesday, 15 November 2005 at 13:33
Shedding tears for you, Thalia
Posted by: Patti | Tuesday, 15 November 2005 at 13:34
Very very sorry... words suck, this sucks. Hugs...
Posted by: Sarah | Tuesday, 15 November 2005 at 13:34
Fuck. Fuck, fuck, fuck. I'm so sorry.
Posted by: Lola | Tuesday, 15 November 2005 at 14:00
Oh Thalia... I'm so sorry :(
Posted by: Sheryl | Tuesday, 15 November 2005 at 14:05
Fuuuccckkk! I'm so sorry, Thalia. I so wanted it to work for you. You are one of the kindest and busiest bloggers out there--no matter whose blog I read you've already been there and made a lovely, thoughtful comment. I so thought karma was on your side. Try to be kind to yourself. I know it will be hard.
Posted by: zhl | Tuesday, 15 November 2005 at 14:20
I'm so sorry sweetie. I'm thinking of you and hope you can move on to the next IVF cycle as soon as possible.
Posted by: Dooneybug | Tuesday, 15 November 2005 at 14:28
Shoot, that sucks, sucks, sucks. I'm so sorry, Thalia. Be good to yourself right now, and know that a lot of people are thinking of you and wishing you the best.
Posted by: Claudia | Tuesday, 15 November 2005 at 14:32
Don't lose hope yet.
A friend of mine (on her 4th try) was convinced the cycle was a bust when she began bleeding. She was told to continue with the progesterone..and got a bfp a few days later. She has a beautiful son now.
It's not over yet.
nina
Posted by: nina | Tuesday, 15 November 2005 at 14:37
Well, crap. I'm really sorry.
Posted by: Erin | Tuesday, 15 November 2005 at 14:51
No good words....I am so sorry.
Posted by: Caroline | Tuesday, 15 November 2005 at 14:58
Well, crap. I'm so sorry, Thalia. This is certainly not fair; you are a kind person, and you deserve some joy--not this. I was so hoping that you would get good news at the end of this cycle. I'm keeping you in my thoughts and prayers and sending you hugs and warm wishes for comfort during this hard time.
Posted by: Jill | Tuesday, 15 November 2005 at 15:05
Oh no...Damn, I'm so sorry. {{hugs}}
Posted by: Lynnette | Tuesday, 15 November 2005 at 15:12
Oh, Thalia. Shit! I am so very sorry. Thinking of you so much.
Posted by: Amanda | Tuesday, 15 November 2005 at 15:22
NOoo! No! Too unfucking fair! I'm so sorry that nothing I write will make this better.
Posted by: DD | Tuesday, 15 November 2005 at 15:39
No, no, no, no, NO! I'm so so sorry. Not.Fucking.Fair.
Posted by: Nico | Tuesday, 15 November 2005 at 15:43
Shit. So sorry, Thalia. So, so sorry.
Posted by: Molly | Tuesday, 15 November 2005 at 15:57
Shit, piss and corruption! I am so very sorry - this sucks and is completely unfair. Take time to mourn this loss and be good to your self. Don't give up. I'm really sorry. You're in my thoughts.
Posted by: Anna | Tuesday, 15 November 2005 at 16:05
Oh say it's something else. Damnit. I wanted this for you, I can't imagine how you're dealing. So sorry.
Posted by: Wavery | Tuesday, 15 November 2005 at 16:40
I am so sorry. There is so little to say. You need to find someplace to be alone and cry , cry, cry. The only thing that seems to help at all is allowing yourself to feel and express absolute devastating grief.
Posted by: Nicole | Tuesday, 15 November 2005 at 17:29
I won't offer any assvice, but as a lurker, I wanted to say I am so sorry for your loss. All I can offer is a Big Hug.
Posted by: Nicole | Tuesday, 15 November 2005 at 17:34
I'm so sorry Thalia.
Posted by: statia | Tuesday, 15 November 2005 at 18:22
I am so very, very sorry.
--Bugs
Posted by: Dead Bug | Tuesday, 15 November 2005 at 18:38
So sorry, Thalia.
My first IVF cycle ended the very same way and it was devastating for me and DH -- I know what you are feeling right now. Hugs to you, darling.
Give yourself some time... it will no hurt forever, I also learned that. Good that you have your back-up plan in place already and going for for the big guns clinic with higher success rate. Best of luck with your journey.
Posted by: Sol | Tuesday, 15 November 2005 at 18:50
Oh, no. I'm sorry as I can be, Thalia.
Posted by: Emma B | Tuesday, 15 November 2005 at 19:28
I am so sorry. I was hoping along with you.
Posted by: Carrie P | Tuesday, 15 November 2005 at 19:32
Oh no. (((hugs))) I'm so sorry.
Posted by: Sarah | Tuesday, 15 November 2005 at 19:39
As everyone else has already said, I am so sorry Thalia.
Posted by: PJ | Tuesday, 15 November 2005 at 19:42
Fuck ... I'm sorry Thalia, I really am.
I know a lot about Big Gun clinic if you'd like any info at any point leave me a message & I'll mail you.
I wish you didn't have to think about plan B though.
Posted by: LEB | Tuesday, 15 November 2005 at 19:47
Have you talked to your current clinic and told them? Mine says to test even if you are bleeding.
A back-up plan is always good in a life-raft kind of way. Take care of you and H.
Posted by: Pamplemousse | Tuesday, 15 November 2005 at 19:53
I'm so sorry for you and H, wishing you lots of strength to get through this. I hope you can start your next cycle soon.
Posted by: heleen | Tuesday, 15 November 2005 at 20:02
Oh, Thalia. I wish I could give you a big hug right now. I'm so, so sorry.
Posted by: Flicka | Tuesday, 15 November 2005 at 20:38
I wish I could do or say something to make the pain and disappointment go away. I am so sorry. You are in my thoughts.
Posted by: Teresa | Tuesday, 15 November 2005 at 20:41
I am so very sorry . . .
Posted by: Beagle | Tuesday, 15 November 2005 at 21:15
Just a lurker saying how very, very sorry I am to hear this ... hope you get to do another IVF very soon.
Posted by: Carla Hinkle | Tuesday, 15 November 2005 at 21:34